PLEASE READ THIS….

Hello y’all, whether or not you are in a relationship, kindly read this post…I came Across it on a friend’s Facebook page, but I’m sharing it because I know it can and will save marriages and relationships…

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The sales girl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed – dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”

Odu Oluwafemi Daniel

Advertisements

244 thoughts on “PLEASE READ THIS….

  1. Tata January 10, 2012 at 9:54 pm Reply

    Is this a true life story or just creative fiction?? Am completely blown away… 🙂 I was beginning to love the story until I got to the end. If it’s fiction why did she have to die??? *sob sob*

  2. kufisile peter January 11, 2012 at 8:44 am Reply

    this is really a gud guide for marriages/love affairs/life challenges.I love this.

  3. yemi January 11, 2012 at 10:43 am Reply

    DAMN…….i gotta say this touched the very depth of my soul……..To people who meant much to me but i failed to acknowledge, people like eniola, e.t.c……….i say I AM SORRY

  4. Abdullahi Inuwa January 12, 2012 at 4:34 pm Reply

    Interesting st
    ory I love it i’m sure if married men and women will read this story

  5. moneyman January 13, 2012 at 7:52 am Reply

    this is beyond what i can do,i almost wept wen i got to the end,but is not all woman that deserve that treat,and if i most ask,why did die–

  6. Peter Oyebanji January 13, 2012 at 8:21 pm Reply

    I am speechless. This is powerful, wonderful and meaningful. Truly, success in marriage is not only meeting the right person it is you being the right person.

  7. onize January 13, 2012 at 8:28 pm Reply

    Vèry sád story.

  8. Michael Okpara January 13, 2012 at 8:38 pm Reply

    Dats a good one.

  9. Mark adi January 13, 2012 at 8:51 pm Reply

    Is touching tnk 4 evrythng.

  10. Kayshow January 13, 2012 at 8:53 pm Reply

    This is touching story! I wish everybody could read this most especially those that thinks that money can give joy, or is everything in relationship.

  11. steve January 13, 2012 at 9:14 pm Reply

    please share this future purpose

  12. Bimpe January 13, 2012 at 9:48 pm Reply

    Interesting and touching story,wish marriage nd relatnship can βε̲̣ sweet ℓi̶̲̥̅ke̶̲̥̅ dis,thank God 4me and ♍γ̲̣̣̥ 2nd best…………we Α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ more dan lovers.

  13. pinblaze January 13, 2012 at 9:50 pm Reply

    woaw is realy touching n heart felt, so inspirational n educative i like dis.hey pepz little things matters in relantnship. Always share true luv….

  14. Olami January 13, 2012 at 10:12 pm Reply

    Wow amazing very loving story..’will he marry jane? Who do i care for?am single…!

  15. ajani oluwakemmy January 13, 2012 at 10:38 pm Reply

    this is one of the LOVE LANGUAGES of learnt so far!

  16. jeffrey January 13, 2012 at 11:12 pm Reply

    Did dis really happen or its just a story on fiction coz its vry interestin til d end wich is vy painful *sobs*

  17. ajani oluwakemmy January 13, 2012 at 11:21 pm Reply

    this reminds me of one of the LOVE LANGUAGES have learnt so far! ” QUALITY TIME”

  18. Caroline January 13, 2012 at 11:44 pm Reply

    wat a luvly story, bt i hate d way it end. broke up 4rm my relationship nt quite long nd i think d reason is d same wit d story i’ve just read. i think this will help me a lot in my next dealing.

  19. Mide January 14, 2012 at 12:32 am Reply

    Every1 av 2 learn dia lesson 4rm dis.

  20. Sarayi adeniran January 14, 2012 at 1:15 am Reply

    Its tourch me very well.Intresting

  21. Areo adedoyin January 14, 2012 at 3:25 am Reply

    Whao! Indeed a marital lesson 2 learn 4rm. God bless u n ur ministry. Amen.

  22. Grace adewunmi January 14, 2012 at 4:05 am Reply

    Y is it dat men are untrustworthy and greedy? Finaly she wil acomplish his mission. Sorry 4 d decease.

  23. Ojo Victor January 14, 2012 at 4:29 am Reply

    Pls keep d good work.

  24. Soetan funmi January 14, 2012 at 4:56 am Reply

    The story is really painful but it has a strong though

  25. Queen January 14, 2012 at 5:44 am Reply

    *sobs* why did she hv 2 die wen tins wia goin 2 b fine at last…..painful buh interestin story

  26. olaiya olanrewaju January 14, 2012 at 6:16 am Reply

    Its a nice story.kudos to d writer

  27. Ruth January 14, 2012 at 6:18 am Reply

    Such i touching story, a wish every man could get this and learn to love their wives cos some mayb suffering from same pain this woman has gone thru

  28. Okanlawon I. Kazim January 14, 2012 at 6:41 am Reply

    I will start to love.

  29. Ibk January 14, 2012 at 7:46 am Reply

    This is just toomuch…….even if its friction

  30. Oluwatobi bodude January 14, 2012 at 7:59 am Reply

    Love is wicked and it is a natural coincidence in which has to do with a normal human being lives.love is also affectionate

  31. Oluwatobi bodude January 14, 2012 at 8:00 am Reply

    Love is affectionate

  32. Chika Humphrey January 14, 2012 at 8:10 am Reply

    What a tragedy, but the end is quite is intriguing this is a must read article

  33. vanessa igboekwe January 14, 2012 at 9:51 am Reply

    A Sad story indeed….wish it neva ended dis way

  34. Abiola January 14, 2012 at 9:56 am Reply

    Wen i read dis story wheda real or fiction,i discover dt d wife took an action being guided by d divine n things work out in a profound way.also 4 us all or 4 every marriage dr is a divine counsel 4 every our circumstances. Wat workd 4 ‘A’ may nt work 4 ‘B’. Be ready 2 seek d divine counsel of God 4 ur situation.

  35. Xploit January 14, 2012 at 11:01 am Reply

    I think it’s d right thing 2 do just Being more dan a friend 2 ur spouse, it wil work. Thanks

  36. Ebenezer oladipupo January 14, 2012 at 12:02 pm Reply

    Oh God! why must she die at tha particular time? It love the story close to d end but the end is sad

  37. emmanuel stephen January 14, 2012 at 8:13 pm Reply

    ‘And she ask me softly why’ dat alone could melt a stoney heart.May she find her place with de Angels

  38. pato osuji January 14, 2012 at 11:56 pm Reply

    wow! it’s an intresting true story, nd that realy teach me a lot about marriage life. Well 4 me money cant buy love. pls we should lean from dis

  39. MEMUNAT AYOMIDE January 16, 2012 at 7:39 am Reply

    Im very sori 4 d family,most xpecially d wife,if her husband did not told her abt d shockin news,she wil told him abt d disease.Is it a true lyf story.

  40. Adegboyega opeyemi January 16, 2012 at 11:44 am Reply

    Oh! I burst into tears at the end of this story it tourched me to the marrow.this is a must for every home and singles.

  41. olayinka January 16, 2012 at 12:21 pm Reply

    Beautiful and rather sad ending, though i’m not married but i’ve learnt 4rm it, 4rm experience! Thanks

  42. tuynde January 16, 2012 at 1:12 pm Reply

    It sad and painful,lover’s should be very careful of their marriage.

  43. Ebere January 16, 2012 at 1:36 pm Reply

    Always luv ur guy or girl or wife or husband,cos u can nerv tell

  44. Ini solomon January 16, 2012 at 3:30 pm Reply

    My heart was touch whn i read this story,if men n women can chang d lov dey av 4 each other we grow.God wil help us!!!

  45. Babatunde Francis January 16, 2012 at 4:15 pm Reply

    God hate divorce,but d problem we have dis day was that people are not patient enough in there marriages. Is left for u and i to make shure our marriages work out fine for others to emulate.

  46. Collins January 16, 2012 at 8:09 pm Reply

    It is quite encouraging to know that love is real to those who believe in it.

  47. charles collins January 16, 2012 at 9:13 pm Reply

    weather fictions or really d question is Do u appreciate little tins such as a simple smile,a simple hello..if no dis might b a turnin point 4u..pls read dis and save ur life and others….cares

  48. kehinde ojedele January 16, 2012 at 9:55 pm Reply

    hmn,it touched my heart so much,now i know ao to kip friendshp and relationship.but its so sad his wife died

  49. Balogun abimbola January 16, 2012 at 9:57 pm Reply

    Wow dts a touching story there.wel i think d men shuld be more conscious becos dy are d one dt has problem of satisfaction.i mean dy are never plesed wit what dy have

  50. Don maurice January 16, 2012 at 10:30 pm Reply

    This is a life touching story i’realy love this of cause it would make’s an inpact in the live’s of so many people out there. thanks 4doing this

  51. Adebayo Michael Ayodele January 16, 2012 at 10:50 pm Reply

    Great lesson.but painful

  52. Timilehhin January 17, 2012 at 4:08 am Reply

    This is so really touching. You can certainly be assured i have gained some lessons&virtues from this. Thanks a bunch.

  53. olabanji sunday john January 17, 2012 at 5:15 am Reply

    Its touch my life.

  54. Adeyemi Mate January 17, 2012 at 7:31 am Reply

    “I really love ‘ur story but mind u the virtue of love is not to find the perfect person but to love the imperfect person perfectly but she ought not to die….

  55. funke January 17, 2012 at 10:20 am Reply

    a very good story. We should learn to value wat we have b4 we lose it

  56. Duduyemi Sunnahyemi January 17, 2012 at 12:22 pm Reply

    This is an interesting. But as interesting as it is, it ended with soberliness

  57. Duduyemi Sunnahyemi January 17, 2012 at 12:24 pm Reply

    This is an interesting story. But as interesting as it is, it all ended with the man in soberliness. Lets learn from this, by making the hay while sun shines

  58. Alawode Olusegun Tolulope January 17, 2012 at 5:14 pm Reply

    oh shit…………this was very painful to me…………soo for that month she did not take any drug………….i know she did it bcos of her son………….i’m sorry.

  59. chichi January 17, 2012 at 6:28 pm Reply

    it all goes 2 say dt evry little details is important 2 kip d sparks in a relatnship.

  60. Alonge Ashimolowo Matthew January 17, 2012 at 8:18 pm Reply

    It is an educative history

  61. GODSON January 17, 2012 at 9:26 pm Reply

    REALY NICE AD TOUCHIN

  62. Hussein Ezekiel January 18, 2012 at 4:14 pm Reply

    surely i learn alot. i mearly burst into cry at d end of d story, there is always somtn to learn everyday.

  63. Hussein Ezekiel January 18, 2012 at 4:17 pm Reply

    surely i learn alot. i nearly burst into cry at d end of d story, there is always somtn to learn everyday.

  64. Hussein Ezekiel January 18, 2012 at 4:21 pm Reply

    what is that crawling down my cheek? sobbing? yes of course, d story is so… there always somtn to learn everyday.

  65. Taiwo memudu memos January 18, 2012 at 4:52 pm Reply

    Infact i realy enjoyed dis publicatn,may God continue 2 increase ur knwldge.i lov dat.

  66. Wungak'a January 18, 2012 at 9:56 pm Reply

    its quite an interesting n touching story, fiction or true it doesnt matter cos d bottom line is for us to learn from d story n b good n close to our partners. Not only our partners I believe but also to our neighbours. A smile could touch a heart. I sometimes blame d computer age cos one no more goes to c a frnd or relation,but rather send a mail or message,make a call. Hw then can we knw d well being of our neighbours? Pls try n visit a frnd today it sure will help.

  67. vivien cyprain January 19, 2012 at 10:27 am Reply

    I love d story but she shouldn’t have died. all d same is a lesson 2 both married n single people. I guess I have learned mine

  68. jacob bose ganiyat January 19, 2012 at 10:55 am Reply

    wat a sad story.

  69. Jerry young January 19, 2012 at 12:00 pm Reply

    Oh!it’s so painful,but thanks 4 this.if only married men&women will do so.i am so sorry4this.

  70. Jerry young January 19, 2012 at 12:07 pm Reply

    Am so sorry

  71. Abeeb Adejoke January 21, 2012 at 10:35 am Reply

    He make sense die am if married women nd men could read these there will no fight

  72. A.T.Puddicombe January 21, 2012 at 3:20 pm Reply

    Touching story but entirely fictitious. I think this is the third variant I’ve read in 5 years. One ended with the wife committing suicide before he got home with the flowers. Another ended happily (thankfully!).

  73. Abasiama January 23, 2012 at 3:43 pm Reply

    i will always apply dis wen am married. oh my God who will be that fortunate lady?

  74. 'Yeme January 25, 2012 at 6:10 pm Reply

    Really tourching…… Itz good 2 appreciate wt we have so dat life wldn’t give us course 2 appreciate wat we had.

  75. adewumi olumide January 26, 2012 at 7:12 pm Reply

    What a touching and an astonishing story

  76. JOREM January 26, 2012 at 7:27 pm Reply

    wat a lovely woman,i think d man need 2 make thorough confession 2 his son as well as his deceased wife 2 avert disaster in his future marriag

  77. abdulmajeed ibn abdulafeez January 26, 2012 at 7:37 pm Reply

    It is a very pathetic but a story to learn from. Love between husband and wife surely at a stage reduce. It is up to the man to show more care for the woman and bring back the love that used to be between them

  78. Falope Abraham Olufemi January 26, 2012 at 7:48 pm Reply

    Marriage does not contain in materials thing but the amount of sincer love, understanding,trust etc that both the husband and the wife put into their marriage.

  79. Amaka January 26, 2012 at 7:51 pm Reply

    Lord.,,,,,,, give us d eyes 2 see love in our pertner n those who care 4 us.

  80. Oyeyemi Mojisola Deborah January 26, 2012 at 8:01 pm Reply

    Dis is gud.I tink friends& lovers nid dis most

  81. Vote Ambassador Faith January 26, 2012 at 8:02 pm Reply

    The woman has display a very gd character, bt the husband wil miss her.

  82. Stephen James January 26, 2012 at 8:16 pm Reply

    Very interesting,This is another way to show us how to love and care one another.couples should share thing together and ensure a proper comminication to each other.

  83. francis January 26, 2012 at 8:16 pm Reply

    Infact this is a wonderful story, kudos gose to the writer, this story diserve an award. Is this a true life story?

  84. Dankoli usmailu January 26, 2012 at 8:23 pm Reply

    Wow! Small things are what really matter in life. Love don‘t really cost a thing.

    • Sylvia June 23, 2012 at 11:47 am Reply

      Oh dis story is really touchin & it serve as a lesson 2 evrybdy

  85. Mordi ugochi January 26, 2012 at 8:43 pm Reply

    Wat a story dat touch life.but y did she ve 2 die?it’s painful i luv d story

  86. Godwin ogbole January 26, 2012 at 8:47 pm Reply

    This experience is a thrill,a pre-marital lesson.

  87. Foluke kolade- bello January 26, 2012 at 9:00 pm Reply

    Its very sad how can she dead after winning his heart.its a pity.

  88. Nelson January 26, 2012 at 9:00 pm Reply

    This is just the truth. MAN CREATES HAPPINESS AND PROPERTIES DON’T. ICN

  89. Tajude osas January 26, 2012 at 9:03 pm Reply

    Hmm! Realy touching.my assimption 4 its ending was presumably perfect. I was stunned to realise he not only lost a wife but love.4 If thers is any love to be defined by any phylosopher, dis one suppassess it.how I wish she neva died!? Thi shud serve as a bitter lesson to those who consider there wife to be I quote”OLD SCHOOL”.4 the wages of adultory is DEATH___not just death but an unripe shameful and scornful death.

  90. Comfort paul January 26, 2012 at 10:00 pm Reply

    Wat a tragic story. Dat first luv matters & moreover marriage mates need to spent more tym as family.

  91. yo u2_me January 26, 2012 at 10:19 pm Reply

    GOD SAVE US AND GUIDE US THROUGH THE RIGHT PATH!

  92. suraya iddrisu January 26, 2012 at 10:22 pm Reply

    GOD SAVE US!

  93. tijani sheriff January 26, 2012 at 10:51 pm Reply

    well if its real its great less0n for married, and if fiction its great thought. love is closeness awareness of each other

  94. Abena January 26, 2012 at 11:03 pm Reply

    This is really touching,i have read it like 5 times.

  95. Rexford Asiedu Boafo January 26, 2012 at 11:07 pm Reply

    never

  96. clinton ehimare January 27, 2012 at 12:21 am Reply

    sad

  97. Omotoso Anthony January 27, 2012 at 4:03 am Reply

    It amazes me that the woman died when her husband began to realize he must love her.

  98. Akinyemi habeeb January 27, 2012 at 7:17 am Reply

    It is a pity dat you almost kill her wit your ignorance
    the only resolves is dat, you should just make sure u take care of her lovely son, so dat her soul will forgive you forever. On ther part of us it serves as a guide and lesson,dat……if u must hav a happy home…..you must love your wife forever! Thks.

  99. vincent clinton Balafama January 27, 2012 at 7:40 am Reply

    its heart touching and heart breaking

  100. Paul Johnson January 27, 2012 at 7:54 am Reply

    Intimacy and communication is very vital in any relationship,talking to my fiance is daily routine both of face and through phone
    by this i found it very difficut to say I luv you to known person not to even talk of a complete lady stranger.lol

  101. ibrahim usman January 27, 2012 at 8:09 am Reply

    This is one of touching stories I hv read. I ws almost shedding tears as I ws going through it. It is an eye opener 4 all couples. ‘ No matter d challenge in marriage, we should always think of d relationship instead of d sitation’ Love, patience n understanding ar d magic words.

  102. Hopeworth Temitope Omojuwa January 27, 2012 at 9:01 am Reply

    Love is a lifelong commitment that must be renewed,atleast daily! AND THE LIVING NEEDS UR SHOWER OF UNFEIGHED LOVE. WE SHOULD ALL MAKE HAYS WHILE THE SUN IS STILL SHINING… Dear Lord, make me LOVE-PERSONIFIED; an embodiment of Your Divine Love, to You, my wife, our children/descendants and everything that has breath in Jesus’name, Amen. GOD IS LOVE! And Love is the only proof that u are of God. Matt5:43-48. MARANATHA! SHALOM.

  103. Grant January 27, 2012 at 9:19 am Reply

    I love this.

  104. bethykel January 27, 2012 at 10:30 am Reply

    is so touchy,this is a very good example for married couple’s i just hope is fiction and not true life story

  105. Victor January 27, 2012 at 10:38 am Reply

    Wot a tragidy

  106. Goodness Sochi January 27, 2012 at 10:59 am Reply

    Wow,wow,wow.its lovly i love dis

  107. Enesi clement January 27, 2012 at 10:59 am Reply

    Pls, take a look at this…

  108. Zayn January 27, 2012 at 11:32 am Reply

    My God!this story realy touched d dept of my hrt bt what else can i said than to bliv d obvious truth that d luv of a woman 2 her husband is more true than dat of a man 2 his wife.God help women

  109. KARIKARI FRIMPONG January 27, 2012 at 11:39 am Reply

    wow, this is realy a full sunday preach about marriage, it’s very fruitful & fills pot-holes in marriages….( )

  110. Bolaji olokunde January 27, 2012 at 11:57 am Reply

    Is it a true life story, if it is, its 2 pathetic. And i’m sorry, that man is stupid and a heartless being, he doesn’t deserve 2 live. Bcos he killed his wife himself, she wouldn’t have died dat time if he had showed her love and care.

  111. Glory ewah okereke January 27, 2012 at 12:36 pm Reply

    This is very touching, a seasoned leasing to absolve.

  112. Akaeze Loveth January 27, 2012 at 1:07 pm Reply

    My God,what a story! I was hoping for a happy ending.Is it real?

  113. Jossy Diamond January 27, 2012 at 1:08 pm Reply

    This vry touchin i enjoyed it

  114. obeng agartha January 27, 2012 at 1:16 pm Reply

    Thanks for such msg. this is a word of advice to everybody

  115. Nelson O taka Okpan January 27, 2012 at 1:47 pm Reply

    At times life does not give good people what they deserve.but in all we have to do good to people who come across us not minding what life is giving us.In marriage you as individual play your role good.certainly the God of good will stand by and for you.

  116. Osondu Obinna January 27, 2012 at 2:45 pm Reply

    it is a emotional thing my guys but life gone move forward oooh.Let us learn from dis pls,is touching nd gud to hear oo.

  117. alice sigtinga January 27, 2012 at 4:35 pm Reply

    never

  118. Andrew Afegbai January 27, 2012 at 4:37 pm Reply

    This is a lesson to married couples and singles.

  119. ololade ojo January 27, 2012 at 4:49 pm Reply

    This is a very good story either fiction or not.it is educative,dis is for married and singles.but why did she have to die now?

  120. priscilla January 27, 2012 at 5:40 pm Reply

    Some of us are even more than dead but with this am somehow relieved from my pains. Thanks for this either its real or not.

  121. peter January 27, 2012 at 6:11 pm Reply

    dont knw wat 2’say jst want 2 let young couples out dere 2 learn wat affects dier spouse &respect each others felins

  122. Akan Tom January 27, 2012 at 6:15 pm Reply

    whao! this is Gods sent. i’ll rebuild my broken relationship that i almost lets go

  123. Odeh Amosparry January 27, 2012 at 7:53 pm Reply

    9ce one indid, wat a turchin story..bt y did she av to die..d husband gona mised her so bad..

  124. Ks January 27, 2012 at 8:10 pm Reply

    It’z a very sensible story coz it touched my mind nd gave me new IDEA.

  125. Saviour Effiong January 27, 2012 at 8:33 pm Reply

    Very touching and interesting i must confess! How i wish we all realize how simple it is to live a sweet and beautiful life in this world.

  126. ijeomaamalime January 27, 2012 at 9:22 pm Reply

    i love it and its educative

  127. Olubunmi Jegede January 27, 2012 at 10:09 pm Reply

    What a fascinating story! It’s a big lesson to us that are married to never neglect those little little things that make us to be fond of each other even after marriage. Married men should never allow any strange woman to take the place of their wives no matter the situation as they can go extra miles to un-seat the woman at home.

  128. Engr Rasheed Abdulsalam(MNSE) January 27, 2012 at 10:13 pm Reply

    good work, u won my heart wt this article, pls keep it up

  129. Jeffery Biggz January 27, 2012 at 10:45 pm Reply

    Every married man should read this and i think its a true life story so sad

  130. bridget January 28, 2012 at 12:01 am Reply

    I love this,it is very touching.

  131. JR January 28, 2012 at 1:16 am Reply

    Changed me mind about my relationship ,love me gal till me die

  132. Babatunde lampejo January 28, 2012 at 5:07 am Reply

    Is an intresting storie.

  133. Babatunde lampejo January 28, 2012 at 5:10 am Reply

    Is it a true life story.

  134. sarah sim suleiman January 28, 2012 at 5:40 am Reply

    HMMMM….wat a story! I had no option than to cry…

  135. Tonia Adewonuola Adedire January 28, 2012 at 7:46 am Reply

    This short write-up really touches my hrt .Kudos to the writer,love truly xsists,a true love is’nt based on money nor valentine gifts,it is’nt based on how well ur partner introduces u to is family member nor how much he spends on u,it is not based on how many dresses he buys for you nor the gifts he buys you,love is not xcitement,it is not promulgation of promises of enternal passion…………love is dat condition in which the happiness of another person is essiential to your own,it is the discovery of ourselves in others and delight in the recognition…….lolzz,dat was a nice short write-up,hope it changes every couple’s mind who wnts divorce!…

  136. Kazeem Oladeinde January 28, 2012 at 8:06 am Reply

    So touching!I have learnt so much from it.

  137. liberty Yvonne January 28, 2012 at 8:54 am Reply

    I’m so sad about dis story it realy touch my heart

  138. Afia Agyeiwaa Donkor January 28, 2012 at 10:50 am Reply

    so touched cos m relatnship is fading out cos of me

  139. Aileme doris January 28, 2012 at 11:38 am Reply

    What a painfull story. Married men should read dis message. They should stick to their wife

  140. jafe January 28, 2012 at 12:02 pm Reply

    really little things that maters in life.hmmmmmmn

  141. eddymacflow January 28, 2012 at 12:31 pm Reply

    That was S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ touching .

  142. Gracious grace January 28, 2012 at 12:48 pm Reply

    Its a pity

  143. nana yaa January 28, 2012 at 1:04 pm Reply

    Hmmm..im completeli blown away..this is reli a relationshp nd mariage savin stori..dat is an ideal wife and mother

  144. Zee January 28, 2012 at 4:41 pm Reply

    O God!im so touched by ds story.in evry marraige or relatnshp,der s d Midst of d yr,it nows dpends on how bot of u mind it.she realy mind hers bt it ws quite unfortunate dat she died afta d man has knwn hs mistakes.CHEERS

  145. Paul January 28, 2012 at 4:55 pm Reply

    Dis is a good message 4 everybody

  146. Nana KUSI January 28, 2012 at 6:14 pm Reply

    TO MAKE LIFE COMPLETE DEN O WOMEN CAN HELP. WOMEN AR OUR HELPER MADE RESPECT DEN & LOVE DEN 2 TO ALL WOMEN OUT DARE I STIL SEARCHING 4 MY BETTER HALE

  147. OLETUBO HONEY ADUN January 28, 2012 at 6:40 pm Reply

    This is a most read for every marriage and love affair.

  148. Maria Louisa January 28, 2012 at 7:00 pm Reply

    this testimony really touched me seriously, i just pray for grace upon me and my husband to reach the end the way we started.

  149. Ifeoluwa January 28, 2012 at 7:51 pm Reply

    Wat a story!dat is d power of intimacy, in evry relationship/marriage both partner must stay connected.

  150. simon nnaji January 28, 2012 at 8:11 pm Reply

    when i started reading this page it look like story but getting to the end it look like life,the words touched my heart,i felt like droping tears off my eyes just becouse of her death.please all i want to know if it realy happened or just a story tell.

  151. Mike January 28, 2012 at 8:18 pm Reply

    Do you need a loan

  152. de best beracah January 28, 2012 at 8:42 pm Reply

    Hmm,gosh ah was eloped in ds story,ah jst wish,only wish,d ryt tin could b done…lyf z a joke!we ought 2 b k’ful or get knocked awt!

  153. lizzy January 28, 2012 at 9:37 pm Reply

    I cried when I read this story. Is so touching when we allow pride and pains to rule over us.

  154. Bassey okon January 29, 2012 at 3:25 am Reply

    Dis an intereting story 4 a married men n women 2 read.

  155. Debby olotu January 29, 2012 at 8:04 am Reply

    Oh wht a touchin story.i shed tears after i ve finish readin dat story

  156. ABUUWAISU SAID January 29, 2012 at 8:29 am Reply

    I KINDLY READ your team & is very nice & attractive ,but what i like to say as a muslim ‘s brotherhood in ISLAM is unlawful to divore a woman without a reasons & the reason has a limit , that why ISLAM Permit you to live with four women or less than that ,& also the divorce has three steps, 123- if you done one you can return her back again for the second , that why ISLAM is more justice than any religion in the world, & forexample if you look cristain nothing will haping like this ,a they said no polygamy in its,& they forget that even monogamy not founded in the bible bcs,JESUS has not done it,.thanks.

  157. Itimi benjamin January 29, 2012 at 1:17 pm Reply

    thats realy heart touching.we should always luv our marriage mate no matter what.no body is bettter than.stick 2 ur mate only,dont wait till tragedy strikes b4 realising it.

  158. Sandy January 29, 2012 at 7:26 pm Reply

    hmmm, if only! people see even worse, its so sad. well, hr did get a divorce after all. Really sad

  159. Annecares Elvis January 29, 2012 at 9:27 pm Reply

    am so touched so sad to know people carry burdens they cant even share till death.we can get some relieve if given d chance to share with d one we luv…

  160. Sadiq abdulaziz January 29, 2012 at 11:28 pm Reply

    Blessed be to those who have true love to others

  161. Joy January 30, 2012 at 6:02 am Reply

    it an astonishing story but very sad at the end.it a treacheous story and makes relationships work easily.

  162. wasiu folorunsho rufai January 30, 2012 at 8:03 am Reply

    I realy love this story

  163. Fg Offr. RB Paul January 30, 2012 at 8:07 am Reply

    It’s really an educating story,
    if actually it’s a true life story then is really bad on the part of the man.

  164. Emmachez.com January 30, 2012 at 10:31 am Reply

    This is a must read for everyone but more especially any girl who has a lifestyle to be a second wife or to marry a divorcee. May God forgive men who are dealing with theiur wife like this.

  165. Obi d Great January 30, 2012 at 12:39 pm Reply

    This is so touching, its a must Read

  166. Dorcas peter January 30, 2012 at 1:23 pm Reply

    Wat a pity may her gentle soul rest in peace

  167. saviour January 30, 2012 at 3:35 pm Reply

    so touching,how i will this could be applied in our homes,our marriages would be save

  168. Tosin2sky January 30, 2012 at 4:23 pm Reply

    I was touched by all this article line. It really PLEASE READ THIS

  169. amosun ademola sunday January 30, 2012 at 4:51 pm Reply

    What a lovely story

  170. Isuwa January 30, 2012 at 6:34 pm Reply

    What a touching story,it weakens me to know dat she’s dead

  171. blesyn January 30, 2012 at 6:56 pm Reply

    Am so touched

  172. Clinton Chukwu January 30, 2012 at 7:03 pm Reply

    Ds am sure ll go a long way in bring back so many marriages dt would ve gone bad.Its indeed a very big lesson to so many pple out there.

  173. Delightnwabeke brown January 30, 2012 at 7:40 pm Reply

    This is a very touching story. How i wish d woman did not die, it could hve been better. Please men iam pleading to all of u, to value ur wife.love & cherish her as ur own body. Wemen contiue obeying and respecting ur husbands. No one of u should let his or her mate down by cheating.

  174. Patience January 30, 2012 at 9:16 pm Reply

    Rili a touchin story…men pls learn 4rm dis.

  175. Okunade sodiq January 30, 2012 at 10:42 pm Reply

    This is a nost read for everyone who is involved in a relationship especially the married one,this ll help to check mate their excesses in marriage.

  176. Mikistar January 30, 2012 at 10:44 pm Reply

    God grant such wisdom in our relationships

  177. Ogaga weever lucky January 31, 2012 at 8:40 am Reply

    Dis message is v gud 4 whose who luv money,money is nt everythg,juv is all dat matter,bless u

  178. Victor neburagho January 31, 2012 at 9:53 am Reply

    Fiction or no fiction. Soo amazing nd soo pathetic.

  179. Ifeoma Okpalanzekwe January 31, 2012 at 11:20 am Reply

    This is really touching but am so impressed,very educating.

  180. Kristen January 31, 2012 at 11:44 am Reply

    So touching. We just need to be close to our spouses cos they are all we have in this world. No matter how fighting ur spouse is, home sweet home is still the best

  181. Kwao Fodjour Danquah January 31, 2012 at 7:28 pm Reply

    Well i was very interested on this story but i sat down and read over and over so what i leant from it was the request the woman ask the husband to do for her for a month why the woman doesnt do all these during the good days but waited until when the man proposed divorce,Bcos the man gets Jean no one knows why he goes with Jean what i can say is that if the woman always doing this in the house i believe her man would not go for another woman. So men/women should lean here what so ever you can do to let home be happy try your best to do dont wait for the bad days. LOVE IS NOT STUPID AND RESPECT IS FEAR

  182. Kwao Fodjour Danquah January 31, 2012 at 7:37 pm Reply

    LOVE IS NOT STUPID AND RESPECT IS NOT FEAR

  183. Yisau babatunde February 1, 2012 at 9:29 am Reply

    life always teaches us past,present nd future 2 be.she died presently 4 her husband’s future re-creative,but is only wise dat dance 2 d melody of life.i think dis shuld b a lesson.nice 1 guy

  184. Margaret February 1, 2012 at 9:45 am Reply

    I’m so much surprised dt m even short of words.

  185. Safdar hussain February 1, 2012 at 11:42 am Reply

    I cried for a moment after reading dis…….Its real love……….i promise i ll never let mah wife cry…….it touched my heart……!!!!

  186. Oghara Bernard Smith February 1, 2012 at 6:00 pm Reply

    D story was touching, makes me feel guilty 4 not hanging in there 2 win back d woman I luv d most wen things fell apart, I miss Dumebi, not 4 anything but 4 d luv we shared, I pray she comes bak 2me b4 things go dead.

    • oladosu oluwaseun May 12, 2012 at 12:55 pm Reply

      i was also a victim of issue like this,u wl av to do d wok,if she is wt anoda man nw u must fight to av her back or else it wl b a lifetime regret each time u remember d lov u both shared,d memories wl always linger on.to my ex that left wen we av issue adetunji aderonke julian i wil always love u wt my last breath

  187. Oghara Bernard Smith February 1, 2012 at 6:02 pm Reply

    D story was touching, makes me feel guilty 4 not hanging in there 2 win back d woman I luv d most wen things fell apart, I miss Dumebi, not 4 anything but 4 d luv we shared, I pray she comes bak 2me b4 things go dead. I’m deeply sorry my Queen.

  188. Doreen February 1, 2012 at 7:38 pm Reply

    I love this

  189. Rofiyat February 1, 2012 at 7:49 pm Reply

    Wow! great! this is a touching and very educative story, kudus to the writer

  190. Oladipo eniola February 1, 2012 at 8:54 pm Reply

    The story is not bad try 2 learn lesson 4rm d man

  191. Godwin February 2, 2012 at 1:27 am Reply

    A very big marriage lesson.

  192. Joy Eze February 2, 2012 at 5:08 am Reply

    Its so heart touchin….bt pained me most dat d woman died cos d man wil den continue his lyk..mtchewww….

  193. Richard Simon February 2, 2012 at 6:30 am Reply

    Please read this awesome blog.

  194. Issahaku Abul razak February 2, 2012 at 6:42 am Reply

    A family is not whose blood you are carrying,but whom you love & who loves you.The woman’s was stronger than that of the titanic’s.

  195. owire roland February 2, 2012 at 6:49 am Reply

    i’m completely overwhelmed by dis story,pls let our “yes i do”b til death do us part,al d woman did ws out of luv cos luv is d most precious gift we cld ever recieve,luv heals.

  196. Biokoro Godstime February 2, 2012 at 8:02 am Reply

    I am really touched by this post!People should read this especially married people and those who r in one relationship or the other.i av gotten more knowledge dat i read this post

  197. olalekan omifisayo February 2, 2012 at 9:23 am Reply

    so tourching it secure marriages

  198. Stephen February 2, 2012 at 9:34 am Reply

    I like d story,i think it will make sense if they used it 4 acting fillm

  199. joyce February 2, 2012 at 9:55 am Reply

    Truely is an astonishing story,almost 2 my story,bt i consida it all joy wen i encounta various trials.knwin dat d testing of my faith produces endurance.’If i may ask wil d man stil marry jane after d death of his wife’?

  200. alhassan February 2, 2012 at 1:01 pm Reply

    every guyz and ladies should pry 4 destiny marraige and seach very well

  201. STINO 1Z February 2, 2012 at 4:29 pm Reply

    A lesson well leanrt n wil not easily b 4gotten!

  202. Adeniyi Adeyemi February 2, 2012 at 9:38 pm Reply

    Dis really touch me and also help me in my relationship dat is all most crashing, im going 2 show my woman true luv now.

  203. edwin enabor February 3, 2012 at 12:32 am Reply

    Veri touching story. Think we have to put in more effort in our marriages/relationships nd know when our partners are hurt or unhappy.

  204. tercular Ahanotu February 3, 2012 at 5:54 am Reply

    For a relationship or marriage to work,it needs the effort of both partners.Some say is the duty of the Woman to save the marriage but does the husband do appreciate those little things being done by the wife to show that she does care for her family.Just like the holy bible said;women honour your husband and Men to love your wife and everything will just be fine.

  205. Pauline chizoba February 3, 2012 at 9:23 am Reply

    What a touching story….this shuld serve as a lesson to all marriages nd relationships…

  206. Eze Uche February 3, 2012 at 2:05 pm Reply

    This realy touchy, every1 must have something to learn from this. i did.

  207. Godswayedemabbah February 4, 2012 at 5:46 am Reply

    I was really touched.

  208. BIANCA NORMAL February 4, 2012 at 6:46 am Reply

    Oooooow! What a tragedy? Jst lik d sayn goes….. “U dn’t know wht you have until u luz it.

  209. Charles savio February 4, 2012 at 7:01 am Reply

    Nice

  210. lawal February 4, 2012 at 9:19 am Reply

    it is too late to cry when the head is cut off. play and jokes is mandary on couples to sustain their marriage and have a happy home. that is the teaching of islam

  211. aghogho oyibo February 4, 2012 at 9:26 am Reply

    hmmmmm,,, love is strong,, care makes the feeling grow,,, cn u hv love n care witout giving ur loved 1 d desire n attention needed,, cn lov grow witout money 2 spice its up?????????

  212. Peculiar chidinma February 4, 2012 at 10:52 am Reply

    This is very a pathetic story, i think it will be better if it’s been given to nollywood to act as a movie so it will watch by many couples who r nt on fbk. I really felt pity for his loving and peaceful wife.

  213. mrs Akemeta February 4, 2012 at 11:46 am Reply

    D story waz realy touchin. marriage, r/ship shud realy dpend on total luv, comitment, patience, endurance, tolerance, pesevierance abv al ving a carin nd lovin inspit of al odds in life nd please no hasty dcisn wen it coms 2 mata of d heart cos its d best tin dat cud hapen 2 any 1 nd culd also b d worst. bt rmeba God luvs us more.

    • abey February 15, 2012 at 5:37 am Reply

      d story got me exploded.is nt pathetic? She died after she swiftly kept her marriage from divorce.

  214. cynthia February 23, 2012 at 10:54 am Reply

    Mi baby! Luv u til mi die.

  215. L.a galaxy February 23, 2012 at 5:46 pm Reply

    4 de woman it is sad,4 de man it’s painfull,4 de son it’s a vaccum,den 4 everyone it’s a lesson 2 be learnt

  216. simiso February 23, 2012 at 6:34 pm Reply

    Shame that was very touching

  217. Rosemary omale February 23, 2012 at 6:53 pm Reply

    I felt d need of a sincere luv btw partners in dis story,is so touchn n emotional

  218. caste Gwomex February 24, 2012 at 6:44 am Reply

    I dnt care whether It is true story or not, all I know is that I got all the message contained in It. I wish that family had a second chance even for a day….

  219. ABUUWAISU SAID February 28, 2012 at 8:53 pm Reply

    Yes&yes This is a wonderful -relevant & interest writting note in a good idea,wishing you good luck & prosperity,may ALLAH give me brain thinking like you,AMEEN.

  220. Ogunmola tolu May 11, 2012 at 7:48 am Reply

    Is this a true life story,if it’s not,why must the lady die?anyhow,what i learned is dat life is damn short to b untrue!!love u all

  221. chidera uju vincent June 7, 2012 at 7:16 pm Reply

    Diz iz a story dat touches d hrt. I’ll share diz

  222. hilda June 15, 2012 at 3:18 am Reply

    Hmm,am in tears.really touching,I pray he forgives himself.she is an hero.women should learn from this.there ar better ways of resolving issues not fighting.

  223. Saidat adebayo June 16, 2012 at 8:45 pm Reply

    This really touches my heart

  224. Eberechukwu doris June 21, 2012 at 6:42 am Reply

    Interesting bt a tragidy, sad ending

  225. Tyna June 21, 2012 at 9:30 am Reply

    Hmmmm! So touching nd a heart broken story God save d marraiges dat is about 2 b shattered.

  226. Balami paul June 21, 2012 at 12:27 pm Reply

    Im really speechless, and I pray for God to give me such a loving and caring woman as wife.

  227. Josh June 21, 2012 at 6:32 pm Reply

    I wish my mum is still alive, so I can introduce this principle to my dad. Well, I‘ve gain myself. Thank you.

  228. Mercy June 22, 2012 at 9:16 am Reply

    Is good as u realise an not devorce ur wife, bcs if u ur wife lost her life, may her sour rest in pefect peace amen. An dont marry 2 jene u will not be happy belive me ok.

  229. Doggy Obuah June 25, 2012 at 11:16 am Reply

    U’er d only dat can mek me liv long.pls

  230. kojo dad June 25, 2012 at 4:24 pm Reply

    THE STORY AS REALLY GET MY CLOSER TO MY SWEET WIFE; AND FORGET ABOUT HELENA.

  231. Temitope mary June 27, 2012 at 8:35 pm Reply

    May God save al broken mariages

  232. Nwafor June 30, 2012 at 5:35 pm Reply

    Once lyf is concern is gud to any humanbeing bt more especialy to the married couple to hav a rethink befor any breakup

  233. Moneyin Akinshola July 11, 2012 at 3:46 pm Reply

    Wow….very touching story.d man wil forever miss his wife.Oh mine…sumtyms,we are so careless most especially we men dat we tend nt 2 knw & believe anymore in d value of wat God has bless us with nt until we loose it.A lesson to all anyway…

  234. MICHAEL GABRIELSON July 26, 2012 at 12:03 pm Reply

    Well, man is not to be trusted. it’s not in a man to love. Woman, trust in GOD and be blessed. a lesson taught is the only one learnt. Give your heart to Christ and avoid disappointment from men. i’m really touched . GOD BLESS YOU.

  235. Lydia Adedokun August 25, 2012 at 11:18 pm Reply

    it is beta we apreciate pple dat lov us n r dear 2us,so dat we wunt loose dem. I wanna tak dis tym 2 apreciate my dearest frnd David,i lov u so much.

  236. Eunicezy September 13, 2012 at 8:00 am Reply

    Its a pity she ended up that way. Please men always appreciate ur woman,bring out the best in her,nd remeber ur gud old days nd remain loving forever.

  237. Femi September 19, 2012 at 9:09 am Reply

    Life…

  238. aloy November 22, 2012 at 12:14 pm Reply

    it is wonderful and touching. may God bless her soul

  239. CHIEDOZIE December 13, 2012 at 2:56 pm Reply

    PLS BE UR SPOUSE’ FRIEND NOT JUST A SPOUSE.

  240. Osas faith December 25, 2012 at 4:19 am Reply

    Touching story, buh it’s too tragic. Shuld av ended happily……buh, still a story to learn from…

  241. Hero emmanuel December 25, 2012 at 8:10 pm Reply

    Intimacy in relationship

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: